Add steps to install kernel-modules-extra if br_netfilter module is not found on RedHat family

[kimiroo]

Proposed Changes

• Added steps to install kernel-modules-extra if br_netfilter module is not found on RedHat family
• Bumped versions of k3s, calico, cilium, kube-vip, metallb versions just in case since new releases may have better nftables support

Backgrounds:

• Had trouble running playbook since RockyLinux 10's cloud image lacks extra kernel modules which contains br_netfilter
• RedHat has removed all iptables and iptables shim layer by default starting from RHEL 10

Notes:

• Have only tested basic bridge in flannel configuration. Needs testing in calico or cilium env.

Checklist

• Tested locally
• Ran site.yml playbook
• Ran reset.yml playbook
• Did not add any unnecessary changes
• Ran pre-commit install at least once before committing
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