feat: add control headers for sqs

[cosmic-chichu]

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Codecov Report

❌ Patch coverage is 83.67347% with 8 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.
✅ Project coverage is 79.73%. Comparing base (895ac12) to head (67a1cfb).

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
rust/numaflow-core/src/sinker/sink/sqs.rs	50.00%	5 Missing ⚠️
rust/extns/numaflow-sqs/src/sink.rs	92.30%	3 Missing ⚠️

Additional details and impacted files

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##             main    #3095      +/-   ##
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- Coverage   79.74%   79.73%   -0.01%     
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  Files         289      289              
  Lines       65028    65071      +43     
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+ Hits        51854    51882      +28     
- Misses      12623    12636      +13     
- Partials      551      553       +2     

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